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Post by raquelpedro on Mar 15, 2019 19:10:59 GMT
Come on now sis! When has Ms.Lindsay ever passed up an opportunity to shade Peter?! My memory is terrible but I vaguely recall that she made a subtle joke about not visiting Peter when she went to Marquette that first time after the show ended. Does anyone recall that too? Yup. She was shading him on her IG last week too. Maybe I'll start following her again. I secretly like when she keeps Peter's name in her mouth. I'm so bored of all the other contestants. She always manages to make me mad and hence interested.
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Post by Deleted on Mar 15, 2019 19:14:24 GMT
She did not say his name raquelpedro she just said she dont chase things that dont want her only thing she forget Peter wanted her she was the one who wanted the ring and could not wait.
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Post by Deleted on Mar 15, 2019 19:21:06 GMT
She just always seems mean spirited when talking about other people that's not in her squad or her relationship and then lights up and smiles when talking about her default wedding that no one seems to care about. She's been the same way when talking about Arie's season, Becca's, and now Colton's season. It's exhausting cause for someone that's sooo in love and about to get married, shouldn't she be happy for other people and their love story on this show? Does it always have to be negative nancy? In order to build herself up, she must tear others down. I am not sure whether to believe that she is unhappy or is merely a mean-spirited, toxic personality. At this point, I believe she deserves Bryan's mediocrity. I don't think Rachel has a toxic personality. I do think there's somewhat of a lack of self awareness here. At times I wonder does she say some of the things she is saying for "effect" or does she really mean it. I'm guessing she probably just sees this her being "honest". I guess what I'm trying to state is I don't mind one bit that she is opinionated but if the pattern is to constantly put down others by taking potshots at them then she should really not wonder about things like why so and so ain't following her. I also have an issue with the hypocrisy of it here. On one hand she has talked so often about how folks didn't get to see Bryan's "essence" and how so many are/were judgemental about her equation with Bryan yet she has hardly missed an opportunity to be that way when it comes to other contestants and leads from this franchise. I don't think she is unhappy. I think she just sees all this through the lens of either her being "honest" or it being her "brand" if that makes sense.
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Post by Deleted on Mar 15, 2019 21:11:35 GMT
If that is her brand she is really delusional. She is bitter and unhappy and that is because she made a mistake and cant own up to it and move on.
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Post by sunnysideup on Mar 16, 2019 12:07:52 GMT
In order to build herself up, she must tear others down. I am not sure whether to believe that she is unhappy or is merely a mean-spirited, toxic personality. At this point, I believe she deserves Bryan's mediocrity. I don't think Rachel has a toxic personality. I do think there's somewhat of a lack of self awareness here. At times I wonder does she say some of the things she is saying for "effect" or does she really mean it. I'm guessing she probably just sees this her being "honest". I guess what I'm trying to state is I don't mind one bit that she is opinionated but if the pattern is to constantly put down others by taking potshots at them then she should really not wonder about things like why so and so ain't following her. I also have an issue with the hypocrisy of it here. On one hand she has talked so often about how folks didn't get to see Bryan's "essence" and how so many are/were judgemental about her equation with Bryan yet she has hardly missed an opportunity to be that way when it comes to other contestants and leads from this franchise. I don't think she is unhappy. I think she just sees all this through the lens of either her being "honest" or it being her "brand" if that makes sense. Gotcha. If that is just her brand or style, then so be it. But she needs to be aware of the consequences of just being "honest." First of all, I am a big believer in "don't dish it if you can't take it." If you are going to be "honest" in a way that just happens to be unfavorable about most people, then don't be surprised if others give that same energy back to you. I know people who tend to be on the blunt side, but they don't mind when folks are also blunt with them. Rachel isn't really like that and it strikes me as delusional and hypocritical. I definitely agree with what you have said about her and Bryan, and that she lacks self-awareness. As far as her being unhappy...something is off to me about her. I can't put my finger on it exactly. I am not sure if I would call it unhappiness exactly in the traditional sense. But rather it seems like she has to be right, or she refuses to be vulnerable, or she has something to prove. Not sure how to describe it and it's kind of frustrating for me lol. What I am more sure of is that she would be a lot more likeable if her "brand" of honesty were consistent (you can accept others' negative opinions about them as well as you can give out negative opinions about others). Or if she decided instead to give up this "keeping it 100" stance and take a more empathetic approach when speaking about others.
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Post by realitytvfan11 on Mar 16, 2019 13:38:49 GMT
I try to stay away from Rachel interviews now because she maddens me in interviews when she is judging other people. She was critical of how Tayshia didn't get mad or frustrated during ATFR. Wwll, I don't think Tayshia was in deep with Colton, so she probably didn't care enough to get mad like Hannah G. If she doesn't feel that way, was she supposed to fake it??
And yet she kept shading Peter for being upset at AFR and saying he was crying backstage. In that case, she was implying he was being disingenuous by being upset at AFR (I don't think he was), so, Rachel, pick a lane and stick to it.
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Post by realitytvfan11 on Mar 16, 2019 14:32:18 GMT
I try to stay away from Rachel interviews now because she maddens me in interviews when she is judging other people. She was critical of how Tayshia didn't get mad or frustrated during ATFR. Wwll, I don't think Tayshia was in deep with Colton, so she probably didn't care enough to get mad like Hannah G. If she doesn't feel that way, was she supposed to fake it?? And yet she kept shading Peter for being upset at AFR and saying he was crying backstage. In that case, she was implying he was being disingenuous by being upset at AFR (I don't think he was), so, Rachel, pick a lane and stick to it. Her and Juliet are driving me crazy. They just said people imbue Cassie with all these good characteristics because of the way she looks (agreed). But then they go on to assume she's just another Instagram influencer without any ambition or career even though her chyron literally says she's a speech language pathologist and she's actually in grad school for SLP. Rachel out here tooting her own horn and saying how Mike Fleiss (who she is a fan of--wut) told her she reminded him of OG bachelorettes like Trista who had a career. Trista was a physical therapist. Cassie is studying to be an SLP. Sorry but Rachel being a lawyer isn't unique in that regard. I'm so annoyed haha.
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Post by ojjtn on Mar 16, 2019 14:47:53 GMT
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Post by allabouttheette on Mar 16, 2019 14:50:02 GMT
realitytvfan11 Eric was a complete gent on AFR. By Rachel's standards he wasn't genuine either then.
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Post by Deleted on Mar 16, 2019 14:53:58 GMT
Wedding in the caribbean now?? Interesting. I thought it was in Europe somewhere.
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